Training Courses

Dealing with Difficult People

In a typical workshop, you will:

  • Appreciate the value of using open questions
  • Be able to describe the core conditions for effective communication
  • Have information about appropriate verbal and non-verbal communication
  • Learn how to be compassionate and understanding whilst keeping within firm boundaries
  • Understand how to avoid communication spoilers
  • Learn how to listen for main points and themes
  • Develop skills in keeping an open mind
  • Find out about the microskills of attending, following and reflecting
  • Appreciate the part played by paraphrasing and reflecting, in diffusing difficult encounters

Programme Outline

Welcome & Introductions

Use of listening skills

Open & closed questions

The core conditions for effective communication

How self awareness is helpful with difficult people

Communication spoilers – verbal and non-verbal

Listening for main points and themes

Attending, following and reflecting skills

When to use silence to good effect

Paraphrasing, summarising and reflecting skills

‘The 10 rules of engagement’

Communication styles

Taking the fear out of difficult encounters

Good quality listening and questioning

Personal action plans for improved interpersonal communication

Workshop summary and round up

 

“Thanks for the workshop.  I will regard the next ‘difficult person’ as more of a challenge than a threat” – Peta Higgins, Portsmouth

“I didn’t realise how important it is to manage myself well, to bring about change in the other person.  Thanks for the skills taught” – Irene McNaughton, Devizes

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